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How To Fight Cultural Differences In Marriage And Stay Happy.

by Marina Smiley

When people plan to marry, they expect to find in their partner not only a lover but a friend also. A person with whom they can share their opinions, their emotions, thoughts and fears.
In marriage we are looking for a partner who will be able to understand our values, our likes and dislikes.

If a man and a woman are born and raised in the same country, most likely they are familiar with the same songs, movies, jokes, books and life in general. They basically have the same roots. In the case of a western man -foreign woman family everything is more complicated and requires much more patience and understanding from both spouses.

On one hand each of the partners has an opportunity to learn a great deal about the other's country, culture, traditions and life styles which can be very interesting.
On the other hand it can be very disappointing, the inability to understand your partner's excitements and, or frustrations.
For example, say you are watching the television and suddenly you see a famous actor or singer, or other type of an artist whose name you have grown up with. Maybe this artist was an idol for your parents and the music of this artist was often played in your house when you were a child.
Now seeing this singer on television reminded you about your parents and house where you grew up in . You nostalgically remembered the tree that you saw from your window. You feel very light headed about this memory and want to share this feeling with your foreign wife.
Unfortunately you realize that she is unable to understand your feelings because she has no idea who this artist is.
Her eyes are absolutely empty, she has never even heard the song before. You cannot believe it !
You tell her that this artist is so famous! Everyone knows him! How it possible that she doesn't know???
Your light feelings of nostalgic disappear and instead you feel within your soul at very large disappointment ...

Be patient! Don't become upset so quickly.
Remember that your wife has the same situation with you.
You don t know her country's songs, her country's famous actors, her books. She has her own memories and in actuality, for her, everything is much more difficult than it is for you. At least, you live in your own country where everybody can understand you.
She lives in completely strange surroundings, where she has nobody to share her feelings with, except you.

Do some research and learn about your wife's country, culture and lifestyles. Talk with her, ask her questions, get to know what songs she likes, what movies and books are of interest to her.
The Internet will give you a great opportunity to find anything!
Tell her about your country's culture, let her listen to the music that you like, rent a movie for her that left you with great impression.
Let her understand you better through the things that you like.
Patience and time will help you to fight cultural differences .


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Sex Between Older Men and Much Younger Women

by Marina Smiley

The reality is that sexual desire does not stop once a man reaches the age of fifty. Most of these men are very happy to have a sex partner their own age or close to it.
But, there is a percentage of these men, who are looking for sex and possibly a life partner who is much younger than them.
This is especially true when men are trying to meet, then date, through the Internet.

In the every day world it is very difficult to start a relationship between older men and much younger women but for some reason that barrier appears greatly diminished if the relationship starts through the Internet. People seem less likely to be concerned about the age difference and love begins to flourish, which often times leads to marriage.
Only after they physically get together or are married, that problems begin to crop up.

There is no doubt that the younger woman always makes her partner feel younger. During the first months of the relationship or marriage, it seems as though the man can beat all sexual records. The question is, how long will he stay in the same sexual peak once the honeymoon is over and life returns to a normal routine?

With age a variety of physical and emotional changes happen to the human body. A fact of nature that has nothing to do with our wishes. Unfortunately we cannot cheat mother nature but that does not mean the sex drive disappears. What it does suggest is the approach to sex will often change.

The successful sex life of these couples is enhanced by the manner of approach. Successful couples have taken the time to learn the secrets and tricks that allows them to survive the difficult moments. If both partners really love each other they will develop their own form of Karma Sutra. But in doing so, they have to trust each other and share their problems and sexual desires, openly.

Older men need to understand that although they probably cannot maintain the same fast and furious pace as they did in their twenties, their life experiences should more than make up for the physical aspect of love making.
Older men usually have more control over the physical and mental state of their being and a much greater knowledge of what elicits pleasure for a woman. This "experience factor" grants them the ability of understanding the female body to stimulate and satisfy a woman which in turn should culminate in prolonged sexual stimulation prior to orgasm.

It can be a very exciting surprise for a young woman, whose only sexual experience may have been young men her own age.
Women often complain that they need more foreplay in their love making and not all of them get it from young men.

Most men after 50 also need some kind of foreplay to achieve an erection.
So, they turn this kind of situation into win-win arena for both! For older men, this foreplay can be very exiting as well and helps him to prepare his body for sex.
Surprisingly, he can do it much quicker then he can expect , because playing and touching a young woman's body will arouse his ability to perform sex, dramatically!

Marina Smiley is the author of eBooks about Russian-Western marriages.

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Russian Panther in a Western Zoo

by Marina Smiley

Have you ever seen a beautiful and sleek panther in a zoo setting?
Her coat is shiny and her movements are sleek and when you have the opportunity to look deeply into her eyes you can see the patience of a big hunting cat. Life in the jungle is never easy. Although many others are her prey, she has much competition from other cats and carnivores. She needs to not only have the stealth of the feline but also the cunning to protect her little ones and to survive the wilds.
She is an animal well suited for the jungle; quick, agile and strong so that she can chase and pounce upon her prey. She is a survivalist.
Everybody, usually falls in love with this beautiful and sultry looking animal.

Now she is living in a zoo and nothing happens in her life day after day:

She is feed daily..........

She doesn't need to survive::.

I guess now, she is happy....

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This information applies to women of all ages from the Former Soviet Union ( FSU). It doesn't matter if you look for a Russian woman of your own age or much younger. It doesn't matter whether you are seeking a woman from the Ukraine, Tajikistan, Belarus or Russia - you will benefit from all the information contained within these newsletters.

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Young Russian Women Doctors and Their Foreign Husbands

by Marina Smiley

An apple a day keeps the doctor away.
But if the doctor's cute, screw the fruit

When foreign men search through the Internet and see many of the young Russian ladies they are often surprised at how many of these young ladies have a higher education. Of great interest to these men are the number of young women, 23 to 25 years of age who put there education and profession of that of a doctor. Many of the men have a hard time believing this and keep asking the same questions regarding this being a doctor, over and over again.

Perhaps, even you have asked the same question: Is it possible for these young women to be a doctor?
Yes, guys, it is possible and I want to explain a little bit about the educational system in Russia. Believe me, I know what I am talking about because I finished the medical university myself, in Russia. Don't expect a detailed report in this short article, as it is not my goal today but rather a short and general picture.

In Russia, students usually finished middle school, which is equivalent to American high schools, when they are 17 years old.
Those, who wish to become doctors, enter into the medical University immediately. They finish middle school in June and by August have pass the entrance exam to the university. In September they begin their first year as students of the medical university. Each medical University has a strict program and students can not choose their own schedule or classes. They have to go to the University EVERY day for 6 years. Classes begin a 8.00 A..M and continue on till 5.00 P.M. every day except Sundays. Of course after school they have a great deal of homework.

They have very short vacation after New Years from 10-14 days and about one month in the summer. June is a completely busy month because they final exams at the end of each year and in July they have internships in the hospitals.
This practice continues until the middle of August and a new school year begins again in September. As in the previous year, there are no choices of classes. The curriculum is defined by the school.

There is literally no missing of classes whether for illness or any other reason.
If a student is ill, they must make up for the missed classes and prove to the teacher that they know the material.
If young woman gets married and then pregnant, she has opportunity to miss one year of her studies and then return to the same level which she missed.
It is call "academic vacation".
Very often a pregnant woman will choose another alternative, that of continuing on in classes, uninterrupted until the birth of the baby. Women who chose not to miss a year by taking the "academic vacation" do so without any special considerations given to them. They don't want to miss a year and continue going to school as other students They will be treat as all other students are, and will attend University every day. When it comes time to deliver the baby, these women miss about three to five days of school and then returns to classes.

The academic pace is very difficult, the courses are very stringent and the hours that need to be devoted to study are very lengthy. The first three years of study has a great deal of attrition. More than a third of the students who enter the first year, drop out by the third year. Virtual all who remain will go on to finish their studies.

Beginning in the third year students study clinical disciplines such as surgery, therapies, ophthalmology, gynecology and others. Their lessons are conducted no only in school but at special hospitals. These hospitals have special auditoriums where the students can study the theoretical part of their curriculum and after classes get to see patients and obtain practice skills. This has nothing to do with the summer internships, which they still must attend from June through the middle of August. After six years of university level classes these student are required to take and pass a government exam. Upon successful completion of the government exam, they are ready to take up residency to continue on to being a medical doctor.

So, lets do the math. A young woman enter the university system at 17 and spend six years to graduate That makes her 23 when she gets her medical degree to be called doctor. That does not mean she has finished her education because she still has to take up residency in a hospital and is still under supervision.

It is not that much different in the American system. A young woman graduates high school at 18 and enters a four year university. After that she has three more years of medical school. If all is well, she graduates with her medical degree.
Let's see, enters college at 18 plus 4 years and 3 years of medical school. This young women will be 25 when she becomes a resident at a hospital.
It reality there is only one year's difference between a young Russian girl and a American girl.

Russian doctors seem to have a heart from gold. Doctors in Russia work very hard and earn very little money and often times work for months before they are paid by the government. But their devotion to their profession is one of being commendable. Their concerns for their patients far out ways their concern for money. Because of this low pay, these women doctors who have placed their name on the Internet are very surprised when a foreign man pays a great deal of attention to the fact that they are doctors.

But in the western world the opposite holds true and if you married a Russian woman who happens to be a doctor, she will be surprised and shocked when she sees how much respect and attention is paid to western medicine. She will even be more astounded to learn the type of life style a western doctor has compared to those of the former Soviet Union.

So, what type of family situation can you expect when you marry a Russian doctor?

I want to discuss a few common situations that can occur. I personal know about them, because I know a lot of the Russian doctors thru my own website for immigrants.

1. Woman who have decided to pass the exams and practice medicine in USA.
She has a very supportive husband who respects her wishes and encourages her to study for the one to two years it may take before she can take her board exams He is the type of man who fully supports the family, paying for all the expenses his wife will incur to complete her studies. He is also willing to relocate if his wife needs to set up hospital residency in another state knowing that he will see his wife very little as she spends 12 to 16 hours a day in the hospital.
The number of men willing to go to this length for his wife: a very small percentage.

2. Women want to study and pass the exams but is prevented from doing so because of family situations.
Unfortunately, the family unit cannot survive without a two income household.
Because she has not had her education recognized by the authorities where she lives, the only jobs available to her are low paying, entry type jobs. This does not allow her the time or the means to get the continuing education she would need to apply for a medical license.
The percentage of women in this position is very large.

3. The husband doesn't want his wife to work at all.
He doesn't care that she is a doctor. He just want a women with "old family values" who will stay at home to cook clean and be a "wife". The chances of finding and keeping this kind of woman is very slim but he may just be lucky enough to find such a woman who is willing to give up her life long profession and trade it in for a apron and title of housewife.
The percentage of women in this category; very small.

4. Women who are content with the situation.
There are many woman in a similar position as number 2 above but are still able to get some education. These woman usually try to find work in the medical field although the income is low. They have given up on being a doctor but still want to work in the medical field and take the low paying jobs that are offered. Percentage of women in this category is also large.

5. Alternatives to Medicine.
Even though the understand the prestige of being a doctor in the western world as compared to Russia, they desire to pursue other avenues and leave their medical degree behind.

Marina Smiley is the author of Cheap Ticket To Russia" ebook If you are interested in a budget travel to Russia, then visit website www.cheaptickettorussia.com for more details. (
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Two Dreamers- Cruel World

by Marina Smiley

By the time you can make ends
meet, they move the ends.

It is a very well known fact that Russian women, who are looking to find a husband, are very big dreamers. They are looking for their prince and if they cannot find and meet him in their own country will begin to look for him in the land of milk and honey, the Western world.
They are looking for a prince who can make their dreams come true; who will love them to death; call her a princess and from time to time will give her a "champagne bath".
If you laugh after you read the last phrase, don't.
I am as serious as a heart attack.
What I have just written in the previous paragraph, is a very truthful picture of the expectations most Russian women have who are looking for their Western prince.

These Russian women are not the only dreamers who are not facing reality but also many western men who are looking for Russian women.
Why?
Because a large majority of western men seek women who are willing to stay at home. A woman who will take care of her husband and kids.
Western men are tired of the feminism movement and the independency of women from their own country and are trying to find peace for their soul in the arms of a Russian, "family oriented" woman.

Here is an interesting fact!
With the cost of living increasingly getting more and more expensive, the time when a family can survive with only the husband's salary is gone forever! More and more women have to work to help make ends meet. With that in mind here is an interesting question :

Do all men, who are looking for a Russian women, have an income greater than the average married western man, who can hardly make meet ends, even though there is a working wife or, are these men just big dreamers?

Do these men dream about the perfect family with dinner on the table every night, made by his Russian wife-housekeeper?

Do they have a financial base that allows them to build a family with only his income or, are they dreamers without any connection to reality?

I understand that it is a difficult world to live in without dreams but when we are talking about relocating a woman from another country then at least one of the partners has to be a realistic and down to earth person. Preferably, her future husband.


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